{"id":7,"date":"2024-07-21T21:17:06","date_gmt":"2024-07-21T19:17:06","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/out-plzen.atack.cz\/blog\/?p=7"},"modified":"2024-07-22T11:08:30","modified_gmt":"2024-07-22T09:08:30","slug":"matka-na-setrvacnik","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/out-plzen.cz\/blog\/2024\/07\/21\/matka-na-setrvacnik\/","title":{"rendered":"Matka na setrva\u010dn\u00edk"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image size-large\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"760\" height=\"1024\" src=\"http:\/\/out-plzen.atack.cz\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/07\/IMG_20221230_131359-1520x2048-1-760x1024.jpg\" alt=\"\" class=\"wp-image-8\" srcset=\"https:\/\/out-plzen.cz\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/07\/IMG_20221230_131359-1520x2048-1-760x1024.jpg 760w, https:\/\/out-plzen.cz\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/07\/IMG_20221230_131359-1520x2048-1-223x300.jpg 223w, https:\/\/out-plzen.cz\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/07\/IMG_20221230_131359-1520x2048-1-768x1035.jpg 768w, https:\/\/out-plzen.cz\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/07\/IMG_20221230_131359-1520x2048-1-1140x1536.jpg 1140w, https:\/\/out-plzen.cz\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/07\/IMG_20221230_131359-1520x2048-1.jpg 1520w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 760px) 100vw, 760px\" \/><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<p>Jako matka pe\u010duj\u00edc\u00ed o osobu bl\u00edzkou, v m\u00e9m p\u0159\u00edpad\u011b se jedn\u00e1 o dceru s t\u011b\u017ekou ment\u00e1ln\u00ed retardac\u00ed a d\u011btsk\u00fdm autismem, si \u010dasto p\u0159ipad\u00e1m jako aut\u00ed\u010dko, kter\u00e9 se nat\u00e1hne, aby pak mohlo jet na setrva\u010dn\u00edk. Dojede jen na takovou vzd\u00e1lenost, jak je p\u0159edem nata\u017eeno. N\u011bkdy tedy je ta trasa del\u0161\u00ed, jindy zase krat\u0161\u00ed.\u00a0<br>Setrva\u010dn\u00edk funguje na ur\u010ditou dobu, pak se zastav\u00ed, a pokud se znovu nenat\u00e1hne, nefunguje. A tak to je v m\u00e9m \u017eivot\u011b. Mohu d\u00e1vat ze sebe maximum, co lze, dokud m\u00e1m dost energie. Kdy\u017e ale jen d\u00e1v\u00e1m a nem\u00e1m kde br\u00e1t s\u00edlu, energie najednou dojde. Je nutn\u00e9 zastaven\u00ed. A to se d\u011bje pe\u010duj\u00edc\u00edm b\u011b\u017en\u011b. Realita je toti\u017e takov\u00e1. Pe\u010dujete o druh\u00e9, star\u00e1te se o n\u011bkoho, jen\u017ee pak zjist\u00edte, \u017ee u\u017e nem\u016f\u017eete. Doj\u00ed\u017ed\u00edte na setrva\u010dn\u00edk, jedete 24hodin bez zast\u00e1vky, do toho \u0159e\u0161\u00edte, co po v\u00e1s kdo po\u017eaduje, sna\u017e\u00edte se plnit, ale ono to najednou nejde.\u00a0<br>Je tu syndrom vyho\u0159en\u00ed, v hlav\u011b se v\u00e1m hon\u00ed my\u0161lenky, co v\u0161echno u\u017e stihnout nelze, \u010das je ne\u00faprosn\u00fd. Pot\u0159ebujete se nadechnout, znovu nabrat energii, na\u010derpat s\u00edly, nat\u00e1hnout setrva\u010dn\u00edk a jet. D\u00e1vat a br\u00e1t mus\u00ed b\u00fdt v rovnov\u00e1ze. Kdy\u017e je jen d\u00e1v\u00e1n\u00ed, fungujete na ur\u010ditou dobu. P\u00e9\u010de o bl\u00edzkou osobu znamen\u00e1 pln\u011b se v\u011bnovat pot\u0159eb\u00e1m toho druh\u00e9ho. Jsem matka \u0159idi\u010dka, kucha\u0159ka, ukl\u00edze\u010dka, prav\u00e1 i lev\u00e1 ruka sv\u00e9 dosp\u011bl\u00e9 dcery s du\u0161\u00ed batolete. Jedu prost\u011b na setrva\u010dn\u00edk.\u00a0<br>A najednou mus\u00edm zastavit. T\u011blo bol\u00ed, hlava nest\u00edh\u00e1, den m\u00e1 jen 24hodin. Dob\u0159e, mus\u00edm za\u010d\u00edt znovu. Opravit t\u011blo, relaxovat, cvi\u010dit, ale kde vz\u00edt s\u00edlu, kdy\u017e nejlep\u0161\u00ed \u010dinnost je najednou sp\u00e1nek, t\u011b\u0161\u00edm se na noc, nejrad\u011bji bych jako medv\u011bd zalezla a probudila se, a\u017e bude jaro. Pot\u0159ebuji slun\u00ed\u010dko, sv\u011btlo, vitam\u00edny, nov\u00e9 z\u00e1\u017eitky a chv\u00edli vypnout. Zat\u00edm ale vypnul jen n\u00e1\u0161 notebook, kter\u00fd je pro dceru nutnou \u010dinnost\u00ed k fungov\u00e1n\u00ed. Pak se ozvou jej\u00ed hlasivky, zn\u00ed jako sir\u00e9ny do u\u0161\u00ed, z relativn\u011b hodn\u00e9ho usm\u011bvav\u00e9ho velk\u00e9ho d\u00edt\u011bte je najednou k\u0159i\u010d\u00edc\u00ed nezvladateln\u00e9 hororov\u00e9 monstrum. M\u00e1 s\u00edlu, d\u00e1v\u00e1 si p\u011bst\u00ed r\u00e1ny do hlavy, kou\u0161e se do ruky, neum\u00ed se vyj\u00e1d\u0159it slovy, tak nad\u00e1v\u00e1 na sv\u011bt fyzicky.\u00a0<br>To nechcete. Tak\u017ee koup\u00edte rychle dal\u0161\u00ed p\u0159\u00edstroj a ne\u0159e\u0161\u00edte nic jin\u00e9ho, jen aby byl klid a pohoda. Zjist\u00edte, \u017ee pro fungov\u00e1n\u00ed rodiny a \u017eivota pot\u0159ebujete m\u00edt v\u0161e vyv\u00e1\u017een\u00e9. Nadechnete se, znovu ka\u017ed\u00fd den vstanete s nad\u011bj\u00ed, \u017ee dnes u\u017e to snad d\u00e1te l\u00e9pe ne\u017e v\u010dera. A n\u011bkdy to tak opravdu je, jindy si ale mus\u00edte na takovou chv\u00edli po\u010dkat. Pak ale p\u0159ijde usm\u011bvav\u00e1 a spokojen\u00e1 dcera, kter\u00e1 v\u00e1m d\u00e1 pusu, chce obejmout, a vy v\u00edte, \u017ee jste pro ni d\u016fle\u017eit\u00ed. Nikdo jin\u00fd by takov\u00fd srde\u010dn\u00fd vztah m\u00edt nemohl. Buduje se mnoho let. B\u00fdt si navz\u00e1jem bl\u00edzko, rozum\u011bt si beze slov, v dobr\u00e9m i zl\u00e9m p\u0159i sob\u011b st\u00e1t.\u00a0<br>Pe\u010duj\u00edc\u00ed matky nejsou ohodnocen\u00e9 finan\u010dn\u011b, na p\u0159\u00edsp\u011bvky m\u00e1 n\u00e1rok jen va\u0161e d\u00edt\u011b, ale hodnota \u017eivota se pen\u011bzi vyj\u00e1d\u0159it ned\u00e1. Pokud bude mo\u017enost jet na setrva\u010dn\u00edk, tak to nevzd\u00e1m. Pojedu, ale cestou budu v\u00edc \u010derpat \u010dasu pro sebe a relaxovat. Jedin\u011b tak to m\u016f\u017ee fungovat.\u00a0<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Jako matka pe\u010duj\u00edc\u00ed o osobu bl\u00edzkou, v m\u00e9m p\u0159\u00edpad\u011b se jedn\u00e1 o dceru s t\u011b\u017ekou ment\u00e1ln\u00ed retardac\u00ed a d\u011btsk\u00fdm autismem, si \u010dasto p\u0159ipad\u00e1m jako aut\u00ed\u010dko, kter\u00e9 se nat\u00e1hne, aby pak mohlo jet na setrva\u010dn\u00edk. Dojede jen na takovou vzd\u00e1lenost, jak je p\u0159edem nata\u017eeno. N\u011bkdy tedy je ta trasa del\u0161\u00ed, jindy zase krat\u0161\u00ed.\u00a0Setrva\u010dn\u00edk funguje na ur\u010ditou [&hellip;]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[1],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-7","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-uncategorized"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/out-plzen.cz\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/7","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/out-plzen.cz\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/out-plzen.cz\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/out-plzen.cz\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/out-plzen.cz\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=7"}],"version-history":[{"count":1,"href":"https:\/\/out-plzen.cz\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/7\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":9,"href":"https:\/\/out-plzen.cz\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/7\/revisions\/9"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/out-plzen.cz\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=7"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/out-plzen.cz\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=7"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/out-plzen.cz\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=7"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}